Top Tips to help a Child with Type 1 Diabetes
When you have a child or teenager with type 1 diabetes, things are going to be very different for you as a family. However, the disease need not define you as a family and it need not be what defines your child. Here are some good tips to keep things together and tackle the condition.
For young kids with type 1 diabetes, it is difficult to suddenly understand all the changes around them. The monitoring, the injections, food control, and more may make them feel like it’s a punishment. It will also be quite overwhelming to take in suddenly, reassure your child and communicate constantly, so they can let out what’s on their mind.
The important task a parent has besides being primary caregiver is to educate and equip your child to tackle the tasks and regulations on their own. This independence is critical to allow your child to grow and have a good amount of self-esteem. While the urge to be highly protective is strong, bear in mind that you will do more harm than good by being that way.
Teens and Type 1 Diabetes
Puberty and teenage years bring its own set of challenges for children as it is a time of asserting and exploring their sexuality, identity, and independence. The constant image in the media of teens with perfect bodies and skins, adds to the dilemma, and this medical condition can lead to feelings of anger. There is a lot on their mind and they may find it hard to stick to the routines which until then they followed to the letter. There is often social isolation that is self-imposed due to a fear of being rejected by their peers as they are ‘different’.
Denial, aggressive behavior, food binges are all on account of their need to act out, the lack of control they experience over their body when the blood sugar levels are always beyond their control. Research has shown that during puberty, the physiological changes at work tend to wreak havoc with sugar levels, making things chaotic for teens with diabetes. Being supportive and keeping a close watch to step in when things are bordering on the dangerous is important. Playing a passive role and thinking they will snap out of it can be quite scarring for you, as a parent and for the teen, as well.
Counseling, Support Groups, and Sports
As a parent, you can help them by taking them to a therapist or find a support group where they can discuss their fears with other peers. Consider enrolling them in a camp or some other activity where they can stay involved with things to keep their mind off this condition and not let it be the center of their lives. Teens can be shown how they can master other areas of their life.
Enrolling them in sports or kick-boxing or other pursuits that they are interested in will allow them to achieve some form of control and discipline in their life. There is often a need for spontaneity that is at war with the need to watch what they eat and do. This is the crux of the problem, teens want to be able to eat what they like, drink what they like and do what they want to with their peers. Understanding the conflicts will help you tackle things better.